Counting down the fun way!

I have seen a lot of different “count down” items for weddings, child birth, parties etc.  Most of them are electronic or on your computer and while helpful and fun to look at they are not really all that creative.

That’s why when I discovered Big Day Chains I just fell in love with them!  This is a fun (and super easy) way to count down the last thirty days before your wedding (or other special events).  They are very well priced at $14.95 each, made with Soy ink on 100% post-consumer waste recycled paper  and made right here in the USA. They even come with glue dots to transform the paper into “links”.  There is just something about physically taking a link down as you get closer that helps build anticipation.

No worries about how “crafty” you are (or are not) because they are unbelievably easy to assemble and come with extremely detailed instructions for those still doubting themselves.   And if 30 day’s is not enough for you they are more than willing to sell you additional “links”. No need to don’t limit yourselves!

One of the coolest things about the company is that five percent of all profits go to the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute.  I love the idea of combining something fun, creative and echo friendly with a cause.  I just get a warm fuzzy all over when I think about it.

I also think this would be a super fun gift for any children you plan to have in your wedding.  They are undoubtedly excited and perhaps a bit nervous.  This would be a great activity for them to work on and a really fun way for them to get prepared for the big day!

So go ahead, order one today and let the countdown begin!!

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Appropriate Thanks

One of the things I tell all new clients is that at Greatest Expectations we have only one rule and that is “There are no rules!”  You do not have to do anything just because someone else says you should.  But I realized I should amend my statement a little bit … There are no rules, except one.  You must send a thank you note for your gifts.

There is simply no getting away from this fact.  Thank you notes are extremely important.  They not only let your guests know you received their gift but that you appreciated it (and them). Even in this tech and eco friendly world, nothing replaces the hand written thank you note!

Thank you notes should be sent for bridal shower gifts as well as wedding gifts.  If it is a “ladies only” shower then the thank you note should be from the bride to be only.  If it was a couples shower you should both sign it.  This stationery does not have to be fancy or expensive but should be a good representative of your personal style.  Have fun with them, get creative and if you are on a tighter budget, make your own!  

A little insider tip for the people hosting the bridal shower is to purchase the thank you notes for the Bride to Be.  Address and stamp the envelopes with the names of everyone on the invite list, wrap them in a pretty ribbon and present them to the guest of honor at the end of the event.  Then all they need to do is write the actual thank you note and drop them in the mail.  This is one of my all time favorite things to do when hosting a special party. I use it for any type of event where gifts will be received.  It really shows your attention to detail and thoughtfulness! I have also been on the receiving end of this fantastic idea and I can say from personal experience, it really is wonderful.

While your guests have up to a year to send you a wedding gift, you do not have that long to send out a thank you note.  Many people like to send wedding gifts as soon as an invitation is received.  We think this is a wonderful thing to do, in fact, all gifts should be mailed and not ever brought directly to the wedding (trust us on this, it is simply good etiquette).  One thing to note is that it is not ok to send out a thank you note with your married name (or initials) until after the actual marriage has occurred!!

What we suggest is one of two things. Send a thank you note on non-personalized stationery as soon as the gift is received or wait until just after the wedding and use those beautiful new monogrammed note cards (it really is ok to wait!).  If you decide to wait until after the wedding (which is my personal preference) one tip for making it easy instead of overwhelming is to write, address and stamp the thank you notes as soon as the gifts are received.  Keep them all together and mail them out the day after your wedding.  If you are working with Greatest Expectations we are happy to mail them for you so you can focus on your honeymoon! Your guests will be pleasantly surprised and duly impressed to get their thank you note while you are away on your honeymoon!

No, you do not have to stay up the night of your wedding and write thank you notes! You have one month after your wedding to mail them for gifts received on the big day and two weeks for anything received afterwards.

When it comes to actually writing the thank you note you do not have to get long winded. Simply thank them for the gift (be specific about it i.e. “We loved the waffle maker and cannot wait for our first free Sunday to test it out”).  If it was a cash gift you should not only thank them for the gift but let them know how you plan on using it (i.e. “Thank you so much for the generous gift. We plan to get the last of our crystal with the money and will think of you every time we use it!”).  They should be signed by both the bride and groom.

What you spend on your thank you notes is completely up to you.  Check out your local stationery shop or shop online.  Both of these can be done well before the wedding takes place so you are completely prepared.  Greatest Expectations has a wonderful line of personalized stationary so you can always go through us to get something that is just perfect (and affordable)!

You can go super traditional and get something monogrammed like this embossed fold over note card from Crane and Co.

White Triple Panelled Folder with Blind Embossed Monogram

Or a more contemporary look on a flat card, like this one from Wedding Paper Diva’s.

Floral Flurry Signature White Thank You Cards

I love this non personalized note card from delphine. They are embossed on 30% post consumer paper and have a soy based ink – totally eco friendly!

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Oh and don’t forget the return address! On most wedding invitations you will have the return address printed directly on the envelope.  Unless you are having custom stationery made, you will need to come up with another solution for the return address.  I suggest getting a self-inking stamp.  They really make the job easier and can be customized in just about any way you can imagine, including different colors. Oh, and they can be used for a very long time – easy and eco friendly!

I love these round stamps from Custom Art Stamps.  There are so many design options you can really have fun picking out the perfect one for you!

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Or you can stick with the traditional and get something like this from Emily Friday’s Calligraphy. (this shop has some really great items, you should totally check it out!).

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No matter what your “note card style” is … pick something representative of you, your tastes and your wedding.  Have fun, buy extras (you can always use them for years to come) and thank away!!


Blog Love …

This has been a great week “online” for Greatest Expectations.  Heather Lynne Vickery, our Owner and Event Director was featured in two prominent wedding blogs in the past week and we wanted to share them with you.

The first is OneWed, an excellent wedding planning resource and a really fun online destination for brides looking for new, exciting tips and also a little celebrity wedding planning gossip.  Heather was featured in the “savvy scoop” section of the OneWed Bridal Blog where her “Rule of Three” is discussed.   

The second is Northern Nuptials, a fantastic site for those of you looking to plan a destination wedding in Northern Michigan. The website is the most extensive listing of wedding sites, vendors and honeymoon locations in Northern Michigan.  It was really an honor for Heather to be asked to do their first guest editorial “how to make your guests feel at home during your destination wedding.”  The article and website have tons of details and information valid for lots of couples planning destination weddings, not just those in Michigan.

Be sure to check them out and don’t forget to let us know what you think!!

Love your Mother: Host a Green Event!

Its Earth Day!  Of course you already know about it because there are special events taking place all over the country.  I hope you were able to take a moment out of your day to do something nice for your Mother Earth!

We thought the best thing to do was offer some free planning advice (free … Not a word I throw around often) on how to host a “Green” event.  Seriously, there are lots of things you can do to make your event a little more environment friendly ranging from the extreme (and often expensive) to the simple (sometimes free).

There are people out there that would tell you the number one way to cut back on your event’s eco footprint is to cut back on your guest count.  Yes, I agree that is a fact.  Actually, that is the number one way to cut back on your budget as well (my current and past brides are shaking their heads right now thinking “how many times have I heard that line before”).  But let’s assume that you have cut your list as much as possible and cannot bare the thought of removing anyone from your list.  Here are my suggestions to help your event stay as eco friendly as possible, there are plenty of low cost items, because no matter how much you love your Mother, you also love paying your mortgage!

1.) Ask your catering company to  not use any bottled water.  This will cut down on your bar costs as well as the amount of plastic and waste at your event.  In most places (especially Chicago) you probably have excellent tap water, so enjoy it!

2.) insure that your catering company recycles as much as they possibly can.  It only takes them a little extra time to recycle everything but it makes a serious impact on the environment.  You cannot imagine the amount of waste there is at a wedding.

3.) Provide transportation for your guests.  If they can “car pool” or take shuttles you provide, then there are far fewer cars out on the road.  Every driver counts!

4.)  Send Eco-Invites!  There are tons of companies out there producing recycled and eco friendly invitations.  Also consider sending evites for your rehearsal dinner and morning after brunch (sorry guys, I cannot get on board with sending electronic wedding invitations – call me old fashion).

Here are a few places to get recycled invitations but don’t forget to check locally as well! Shindig Invites and Invite Site.  There are a ton more but I like these two.  We even sell a selection of green invitations so just ask for them!

5.) Shop Local.  This can make a big difference!  The closer to home you shop the less fuel and energy go into getting items to you and your event.  Look for local jewelry and dress designers, work with local designers and printers.  Ask your caterer if they can find a local source for your food.  All of this can make a giant impact while keeping money in your community, now who does not need that?

6.) Have guests take home left over sweets or food.  Most catering companies are not allowed to let you donate left over food for health code reasons. In fact, most shelters and soup kitchens cannot take the food for the same reason, but that does not mean it should be thrown out or wasted!  Send it home with friends and family that are not traveling a long distance … Good sweets never go bad (at least not at my house, they don’t last that long!).

7.) Consider a green dress or a “designer Second”.  Here in Chicago I like to send people to Here Comes The Bride in Addison, or Wedding Belle’s in Barrington.  Not only are you making a good “green” decision but it is going to save some green in your pocket as well!  

You can also consider having your dress made with eco friendly fabrics, check out Olivia Luca,  Conscious Clothing (where they have tons of different things made out of hemp) and  Rawganique.

7.) Look for a LEED certified venues and hotels, they are hard to come by but they do exist.  In chicago you might want to check out  Hotel Felix, Hotel Arista, Garfield Park Conservatory, Chicago Botanic Gardens, Lincoln Park Zoo, Brookfield Zoo (they have beautiful new wedding pavilions) or even any of the Chicago Park District locations!

Hotel Monaco Chicago, Hotel Burnham, Hotel Allegro Chicago, InterContinental Chicago, and the Talbott Hotel all recently received Green Seal certification, an environmental lodging standard with requirements in waste minimization, energyefficiency, water conservation, waste-water management, and green procurement.  Not bad choices either!

8.) Give some thought to your guest favors.  Our favorite is not giving one at all!  Instead consider making a donation to your favorite charity in honor of your guests.  They will love it and not have to drag anything home at the end of the night! 

If you simply must give an actual gift consider native seedlings, bamboo, or a plantable paper flower.

9.) Last but not least, simply consider the when and where!  If you are willing to have your event on a non traditional day (think Friday or Sunday) or at a non traditional time (breakfast, brunch or lunch) you will save tons of money and that is green all by itself!  One of my all time favorite events was a morning ceremony and brunch in W Chicago Lakeshore’s Altitude.

Just for fun here are some cool pictures from that event.

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Couture Sample Sale!!

For two days only, Mira Couture is offering 80% off all store samples at her spring Couture Sample Sale. Mira Couture is known for her exquisite collection of gorgeous custom wedding gowns, veils, headpieces and accessories. This sale also includes cocktail dresses and suits, evening and mother of the bride gowns.

April 17 & April 18

Mira Couture | 1 East Delaware Place

Featuring the designs of Paloma Blanca, Alfred Sung, Stephen Yearick, YSA Makino, Vatit Itth

No Appointment Necessary

Mira Couture | 312.255.1699

Lynn Litwin Jewelry and Hair Accessories Trunk Show

The Left Bank and CS Brides present the 

Lynn Litwin Trunk Show

April 5 & 6

The Left Bank Jewelry & Wedding Shoes

1155 West Webster Avenue

Chicago based couture wedding accessories designer Lynn Litwin will be at our favorite spot, The Left Bank. Lynn creates unmistakable detailed hair gems and jewelry. Her exquisite limited edition designs make them an exceptional heirloom. She has graced the covers of major bridal magazines including InStyle and Martha Stewart Weddings.

Don’t forget to RSVP: 773.929.7422 | theleftbank@sbcglobal.net

Blissful Bride Week at 1154 LILL Studio

It’s Blissful Brides week at 1154 LILL!  From now until March 29th brides receive 20% off a purchase of five or more bags. What a great time to be a bride!

Get inspired by other LILL brides. LILL Brides have designed custom handbags to coordinate with the bridesmaid dresses or to compliment the bridesmaid’s unique personality. With so many options available, you will be able to create perfect, one-of-a-kind bridal handbags for your special day. 

Call right away to make your appointment with a stylist.  This is a super fun thing to do with your bridal party and the end results totally rock!

If you have not been to LILL you really must check it out!

904 W. Armitage • Chicago, IL 60614

773.477.LILL (5455) 

 chicago@1154lill.com

Regular Retail Hours:
M  T  W  F  11-6:30     TH 11-8     SAT 11-6     SUN 12-5

 

** For the record, LILL always offers 10% off for bridal parties if you purchase five or more bags … and these bags are really fantastic!!